Failure Se Kaise Ubre? 10 Practical Tarike Jo Sach Mein Kaam Karte Hain

Kal hi mera ek dost mere paas aakar baitha. Uski aankhein geeli thi aur aawaz mein ek dard tha. Usne kaha, "Bhai, main life mein itna fail ho gaya hoon lagta hai... sab kuch khatam ho gaya." Us waqt mujhe laga, aise kitne hi log honge jo ek failure ko apni zindagi ka ant maan baithte hain. Agar aap bhi aisa hi feel kar rahe ho, toh yeh article aapke liye hi hai. Humein aaj baat karni hai ki Failure se kaise ubren – kuch aise practical tarike jo maine khub try kiye hain aur jo sach mein kaam karte hain.

Personal Note: Maine khud apni life mein bhut se failures dekhein hain, aaj main aap ko ye bhi btaunga ki main khud kaise nikala tha isn sab failures se. Jab main College mein study kar rha tha to mujhe aisa lagta tha ki maine Galat course selection kar liya hai par fir bhi main ye sochta rha hi mere parents se mere ko ye course select karne mein meri help ki hai or agar main is course ko change kar ke koi or course lunga to shayeid main apne parents ke dreams ko bhi hurt karunga. Par main shayeid galat tha kiyon ki agar maine apne parents ko ye bta deta ki jo course maine or aap ne mere liye select kiya hai vo mujhe samjh nhi aa rha or shayeid mera interest bhi nhi hai to shayeid maine aaj ek ache level par job par rha hota. Mujhe mere graduation ke course mein success nhi mili or mere saath ke sbhi classmates mere se bhut agge nikal gye. Us din maine decide kiya ki ab is galati se nikalane ke liye mujhe khud ke hard work karna hoga ya fir fir mujhe raat din isi baat ko soch kar apne career ko barbaad kar leina hai ki maine galat decession le liya hai or ab kuch nhi ho sakta. Is failure se ko maine challenge ki trah liya or apne graduation degree ho complete kiya. Us din ke baad maine hamesha ye socha ki humein apni life ke fainsale khud karne chahiye. Humare parents hamara acha sochtein hain hamesha par kya humara interest kuch or to nhi ? ye ek bar apne aap ke jaroor puchana chahiye.

1. Galti Ko Accept Karna Seekho (Acceptance is the First Step)

Sabse pehli baat, bhai... failure ko ignore mat karo. Na hi usse dabaoo. Seedha-seedha accept karo ki "Haan, main is situation mein fail ho gaya hoon." Ye acceptance aapko andar se strength degi. Jab aap maan lete ho ki haan galti hui hai, tabhi toh uss galti ko sudharne ka rasta khulta hai. Ye first step hai failure se upar uthne ka.

2. Emotional Outflow Ko Rokna Mat – Royo, Chillao, Likho!

Bottling up your emotions is the worst thing you can do. Agar roona aa raha hai, toh ron do. Akele mein chillao. Ya phir ek diary uthao aur apne dil ki har baat usme likh do. Ye emotional release aapke mind ko light feel karayega. Aisa karne se aapka dimaag clear hoga aur aage badhne ki soch payega.

3. "Kyun" Fail Hue? Root Cause Tak Pahuncho

Ab thoda analysis time. Apne aap se poocho: "Kyun hua aisa?" Kya preparation poori nahi thi? Kya time management theek nahi tha? Ya koi personal issue tha? Ek copy uthao aur do columns banao: 'Reasons for Failure' aur 'Possible Solutions'. Aisa karne se aapko samajh ayega ki problem kahan thi aur agle baar kya improve karna hai.

4. Failure Ko 'The End' Nahi, 'Data Point' Samjho

Yeh wali baat zara scientific hai. Socho, aapne ek experiment kiya aur woh fail ho gaya. Toh kya aap science ko hi chhod doge? Nahi na! Aap kehte ho, "Chalo, ek tareeka pata chal gaya jo kaam nahi karta." Bilkul waise hi, failure ek data point hai jo aapko batata hai ki "Ye raasta band hai, ab koi doosra raasta try karo."

5. Choti-Choti Jeet Ka Jashn Manao (Celebrate Small Wins)

Failure ke baad confidence low rehta hai. Use wapas lane ka sabse aasan tarika hai choti-choti jeet ko appreciate karna. Aaj aapne subah jaldi uthkar workout kar liya? Shabashi! Aapne ek difficult phone call handle kar li? Wah! In choti victories ko celebrate karo. Ye aapko slowly wapas track par layegi.

6. Apne Goals Ko Chhota Karo – Break Them Down

Bade goal dekh kar ghabrahat hoti hai. Jaise 10kg weight loss ka soch kar aap overwhelm ho jaoge. Isliye goal ko chhote-chhote pieces mein break karo. Pehle 1kg lose karo, phir agla... Aise har step par success milegi aur motivation bani rahegi. Small steps lead to big achievements.

7. Inspiration Lo – Virat Kohli, Amitabh Bachchan, Edison

Jab lagta hai sab khatam ho gaya hai, toh un logon ki stories padho jo fail hoke bhi kuch ban gaye. Virat Kohli ke papa ki raat mein death hogi, kal hi match khelna hai – imagine the mental strength! Amitabh Bachchan ko shuru mein bolne ka style pasand nahi aaya tha logon ko. Thomas Edison ne 10,000 baar try karke bulb banaya. Inki kahaniyan aapko force degi ki "Haan, main bhi kar sakta hoon."

Real Life Example: Main aap ko ek real life ka example de kar samjhata hu. 2009 mein jab world mein recession aya tha tab kisi ko bhi jobs nhi mil rhi thi or companies apne experienced employees ko bhi jobs se nikaal rhe the. Us waqtmaine kuch log aise dekhe jinhone himat nhi haari or unhone food Carts lga kar apni earning karni shuru kar di us time mujhe aisa lga ki ye log depression mein ye sab decission le rhein hain par jab maine apne se seniors ko pucha is ke bare mein to unhone bola "life ki yhi schai" hai har waqt ek jaisa nhi rehta is liye bure waqt ke liye always ready rehana chahiye or bure waqt se hamesha sikhana chahiye humein. Aaj un mein se kuch logon ke khud ke resutaurants hain or bhut acha earning kar rhein hain.

8. Apna Focus Present aur Future Par Lao

Past mein rehna chhod do. "Kash aisa hota, kash waisa hota" ye sochne se kuch nahi milta. Socho "Ab aage kya kar sakta hoon?" Apni energy uss cheez par lagao jo aap control kar sakte ho – jo abhi ki situation hai aur aage ka plan. Yeh mindset aapko failure ke loop se bahar nikalega.

9. Help Maangne Mein Koi Sharam Nahi Hai

Yaar, hum Indian log maan lo ya na maan lo, help maangne se darte hain. Lekin aisa mat karo. Apne parents, ya kisi close friend ya teacher se baat karo. Unka perspective aapki problem ka aisa solution de sakta hai jo aapko khud nahi soojha. Remember, asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

10. Yaad Rakho – Aage Badhna Hi Ek Option Hai

Last aur most important point: Zindagi mein chahe kuch bhi ho jaye, aage badhna hi ek option hai. Rukna nahi hai. Har failure aapko kuch na kuch sikhakar jata hai. Utho, apne aap ko dust off karo, aur dobara try karo. Kamyabi zaroor milegi.

FAQs: Failure Se Related Common Sawal

Q: Failure se kaise ubren?
A: Failure se ubharne ke liye sabse pehle failure ko accept karein, emotional release karein, root cause analyze karein, aur choti-choti jeet ka jashn manayein.
Q: Failure ko accept kaise karein?
A: Failure ko accept karne ke liye aapko mentally ready rehna hoga. Seedha-seedha maan lein ki 'Haan, main fail hua hoon' aur isse ek learning opportunity samjhein.
Q: Failure ke baad motivation kaise wapas layein?
A: Motivation wapas lane ke liye chote goals set karein, successful logon ki stories padhein, apne small wins celebrate karein.
Q: Kya failure permanent hota hai?
A: Nahi, failure permanent nahi hota. Yeh ek temporary situation hai jo aapko kuch sikhane aayi hai.
Q: Failure se depression mein kaise na jayein?
A: Depression se bachne ke liye emotions ko express karein, kisi se baat karein, physical activity karein.

Conclusion: Failure Hi Toh Success Ki First Step Hai

Toh doston, failure koi aisi cheez nahi hai jisse darna chahiye. Ye toh ek teacher ki tarah hai jo thoda tough hai, par sikhakar hi maanti hai. In 10 tips ko follow karo, apni life mein implement karo, aur dekho kaise aap failure ko apni strength bana lete ho. Aap mein himmat hai, bas use jagane ki zaroorat hai. All the best!


10 Practical Tarike jo failure ko success mein badal saktein hain